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Within you..

     Adulting. It's a new word or should I say an expression used frequently today, partly because of the web series of the same name on YouTube but largely due to  a feeling, a probing unconscious internal drive that tells us that this is it. This is the phase, the stage of life we were excited during our adolescent years, thinking it would be that time wherein we'd be ourselves, our own self. However I never thought it would be probably one of the hardest experiences- and I know this is just the beginning, the first step, but its hard. One thing my dissertation project taught me was that at the end of the day, one's work is called 'their work' for a reason - for one, nobody is going to be there when you really really need someone since that is the time, the defining moments where in you realise that you have to be stronger than what you are, when in the midst of tears, you have to find the courage to not let those tears rolling down your face define you or your w